Time moves in one direction, memory in another.
William Gibson
In this very long time and space that I have been given to transform my life, I have spent a lot of time brooding; wondering where the hell I went wrong. My broken man picker, the mental and physical abuse I’ve endured. Choices I have made to resolve the injustices- the creation of my alter ego Jennifer, even to the point of me being middle aged with no retirement, car or home. The folks that have fallen away from my life in the past 3 years
Don’t get me wrong, I am so grateful for what I do have. My little RV nestled in the Sierra Nevada Foothills. My kids are both healthy and happy; my one and only granddaughter that is growing up way too fast. My pooches that have come so far…..
A few weeks ago I had a dream. It was about one of my childhood friends that was taken from us way too soon. He took me on a journey in which we were back in our 20’s and showed me what my life would look like now if I had stayed instead of leaving with my mom that day. My son and his daughter would have grown up together and my son would be an only child. I would’ve been mostly a stay at home mom, except for a few part time jobs here and there, as I was at that time, not a high school graduate, probably selling weed on the side to make extra money. I would spend most of my days getting high with our circle of friends, the ones we sold to. Life would be easy and simple. My son’s dad would most likely not go into the Navy and neither would my son.
Like that Star Trek episode, when Picard had the opportunity to go back and change the decisions he made and how it completely altered his course in life.
I would not have experienced life as I have in this universe -those major shifts that completely altered the direction of my being; moving to a different State and meeting new friends and a new way of life, gleaning those moments of opportunity. Losing everything I owned which taught me material things were just things, life, love and adventure was the direction of the day.
Meeting my Catalyst and experiencing my Spiritual Awakening and the Twin Flame Phenomenon.
Even though my experiences were mostly not so great, but in those moments, is what led me to continue with my education and work so diligently to get my Master Certification. The direction of the people around me, my son, my daughter, the opportunity to raise someone else’s children and those experiences that shaped me into who I am today, that created this strong, compassionate woman that wants to reach out and share my stories and help others with the knowledge I have learned.
I miss those times of talking with Forrest; we could stay up all night. He was this beacon of light even though he carried so much heaviness. He loved so much and had so much love to give.
I woke up from that dream and saw so many different scenarios and shifts that were placed on my path that led me to this time and space. Even being here and the experiences of the past 5 years and how it has even took me that much farther than if I didn’t listen to the quiet voice in my heart and followed.
Riddled in that dream was also a message for me to keep taking action and keep punching through the shroud until I find the right one, the catalyst of change that catapults me to the quantum leap I’ve been working towards to get to the top of my mountain.
Sometimes, we do need to stop and reflect and look into that rear view mirror, so we can not only see how far we’ve come, but also to see how the choices we made at those times in our lives where we had to rely only on the knowledge we had at that time that shaped us into who we are today and what we are meant to accomplish in this life.
With Hugs and Hope
Diane